Helping someone out when they need it is always a noble cause. You are a gener ous person, and you enjoy helping other people out. But sometimes it can be di fficult to know when someone really needs help and when you are being taken ad vantage of. And when someone does take advantage and you wind up feeling used, it can cause you to feel bitter and to stop wanting to help. You may have rec ently been emotionally manipulated into doing a good deed, but you are still t he same giving, caring person you were before. Don't let it turn you bitter, d ear Gemini. You can find compassion in this situation too. 在別人需要幫助的時候幫助他總是一項崇高的事業。 你是一位慷慨大方的人，而你幫助別人樂在其中。 但是，有時候很難去辨別某個人是真的需要幫忙還是你被利用了。 當某個人利用你，而你感覺被利用了，你可能會感覺痛苦，並且停止幫助別人。 你最近也許在情緒上被操控去做一件好事， 但是你仍然是以前那個的付出、關心別人的人。 不要讓它讓你變得痛苦，親愛的雙子們。 在這種情況下你也可以找到同情心。 Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 --

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