Helping someone out when they need it is always a noble cause. You are a gener ous person, and you enjoy helping other people out. But sometimes it can be di fficult to know when someone really needs help and when you are being taken ad vantage of. And when someone does take advantage and you wind up feeling used, it can cause you to feel bitter and to stop wanting to help. You may have rec ently been emotionally manipulated into doing a good deed, but you are still t he same giving, caring person you were before. Don't let it turn you bitter, d ear Gemini. You can find compassion in this situation too. 在别人需要帮助的时候帮助他总是一项崇高的事业。 你是一位慷慨大方的人，而你帮助别人乐在其中。 但是，有时候很难去辨别某个人是真的需要帮忙还是你被利用了。 当某个人利用你，而你感觉被利用了，你可能会感觉痛苦，并且停止帮助别人。 你最近也许在情绪上被操控去做一件好事， 但是你仍然是以前那个的付出、关心别人的人。 不要让它让你变得痛苦，亲爱的双子们。 在这种情况下你也可以找到同情心。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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