The silly phrase that goes "play stupid games, win stupid prizes" might apply to someone you know right now, dear Gemini. But in some ways, it can apply to you too. You may be overly concerned with what someone in your life is doing, and the futility, irresponsibility, or foolishness of it. But it isn't your ga me to play or to manage either, and so you have to get this in check. You can offer advice if you wish, and try to be a source of guidance and inspiration, but you can't control what someone else chooses to do. Once you realize that, you can back off. And backing off might have a better effect than you realize. 有一句愚蠢的用語是這樣說「玩愚蠢的遊戲，贏得愚蠢的獎品」， 也許可以應用到某個你現在認識的人，親愛的雙子們。 但是以某種方式來說，它也可以應用在你的身上。 你也許過度關心某個在你生活中的人他在做什麼， 以及他的徒勞、不負責任、愚蠢。 但是，這個不是你玩得或者是管理得遊戲， 所以你必須控制它。 如果你希望的話，你可以提供建議， 試圖成為指引跟鼓勵的來源， 但是你無法控制某個人他要選擇做什麼。 一旦你了解到這一點，你可以退回來。 而且退回來的影響比你了解的還要好。 Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 --

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