The silly phrase that goes "play stupid games, win stupid prizes" might apply to someone you know right now, dear Gemini. But in some ways, it can apply to you too. You may be overly concerned with what someone in your life is doing, and the futility, irresponsibility, or foolishness of it. But it isn't your ga me to play or to manage either, and so you have to get this in check. You can offer advice if you wish, and try to be a source of guidance and inspiration, but you can't control what someone else chooses to do. Once you realize that, you can back off. And backing off might have a better effect than you realize. 有一句愚蠢的用语是这样说「玩愚蠢的游戏，赢得愚蠢的奖品」， 也许可以应用到某个你现在认识的人，亲爱的双子们。 但是以某种方式来说，它也可以应用在你的身上。 你也许过度关心某个在你生活中的人他在做什麽， 以及他的徒劳、不负责任、愚蠢。 但是，这个不是你玩得或者是管理得游戏， 所以你必须控制它。 如果你希望的话，你可以提供建议， 试图成为指引跟鼓励的来源， 但是你无法控制某个人他要选择做什麽。 一旦你了解到这一点，你可以退回来。 而且退回来的影响比你了解的还要好。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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