You may be frustrated because of the way someone has been treating you and you don't know how to handle it. But rather than feeling bad for yourself, Gemini , try seeking insight into why this person is in such a bad state of mind that they would treat you in a less than respectful way. If they express harshness or anger, be gentle. If they are pressuring you or rushing you, then be patie nt. If they are critical, find something good about that person and praise the m. You get the idea. Return negative with positive, and you can turn this arou nd. 你也許因為某個人對待你的方式你不知道如何處理它而感到挫折。 但是，與其對你自己感覺很糟，雙子們， 倒不如試著深入瞭解這個人如此糟的心態， 以致於他們用不尊重的方式對待你。 如果他們表達粗魯或者是憤怒，請保持溫和。 如果他們施壓於你或者是催促你，請保持耐心。 如果他們愛挑剔的，找出那個人身上的優點，並且稱讚他們。 你明白了。 用正面去回報負面，你可以扭轉局勢。 Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 --

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