You may be frustrated because of the way someone has been treating you and you don't know how to handle it. But rather than feeling bad for yourself, Gemini , try seeking insight into why this person is in such a bad state of mind that they would treat you in a less than respectful way. If they express harshness or anger, be gentle. If they are pressuring you or rushing you, then be patie nt. If they are critical, find something good about that person and praise the m. You get the idea. Return negative with positive, and you can turn this arou nd. 你也许因为某个人对待你的方式你不知道如何处理它而感到挫折。 但是，与其对你自己感觉很糟，双子们， 倒不如试着深入了解这个人如此糟的心态， 以致於他们用不尊重的方式对待你。 如果他们表达粗鲁或者是愤怒，请保持温和。 如果他们施压於你或者是催促你，请保持耐心。 如果他们爱挑剔的，找出那个人身上的优点，并且称赞他们。 你明白了。 用正面去回报负面，你可以扭转局势。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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