最後一句有點偏激 呵呵 我相信你的經驗是很多留學生共有的經驗 可是不要忘記 其實他們骨子裡已經是美國人了 即使他們也許是第二代或是第三代移民 何不就把他們當老外看待就好? 交朋友是跨越種族國界的 何不依照個性性情 而不是國籍或種族來交朋友呢? 另外 為什麼你的英文不好 何況我相信也有一大票其他人當時懶得理你吧 為什麼期待同種族的人一定要對你有耐性? 美國的高中其實有點殘酷的... 我不是叫你要接受現實 而是說 與其浪費時間精力自怨自艾 或是 把這種情況歸咎於 "當亞洲人就是比不上白人 所以連當地的亞裔都很自卑 所以才不理我" 這樣子對你沒好處 不如先把這種想法放一邊 多去和對你好的人親近 告訴自己這世界的好人真多 對你比較好 也許我比較天真 但這樣想的我比較快樂 ※ 引述《nancy75822 ()》之銘言： : I can't type chinese here. just let you guys know ^^ : my experience was different, wheni first came to the U.S. the teachers or : school faculties were very nice to me cuz they know how hard it is to : study in a foreign country. but those Asian Americans are nothing nice like : that, they wouldn't talk to me or hang out w me cuz i'm fob. : (that was back in high school) : 4 years later i saw those ppl in the college and they are a LOT nicer to me : cuz i speak better english now, and they actually wanna invite me to : thier events or parties. I asked those girls, why were you so rude to me : when i first came here . I was away from home, helpless. none of yall provided : any assistance, all you guys did just look at me weird and think i was not : good enough to talk to you cuz my english sucked. : I really don't need friends who are shallow and prejudicial. : I think some asian AMERICANS hate fobs and they secretly hate how fobby their : parents are and feel so ashamed of their accent. : I know some girls who ONLY date white guys or hang out with white ppl. : they think they are white, and they wanna be white. : I think they should holocaust themselves if they really hate their own race. : ※ 引述《catchpw (catchpw)》之銘言： : : 不要說行政單位的辦事人員了 : : 在台灣,教授在課堂上也普遍對僑生外籍生優惠客氣很多 : : 很多外籍生中文不好 : : 老師就自動降低評分標準讓他們過 : : 或者允許他們用英文,甚至是日文寫考卷 : : 然後老師在自己請其他學生把他們的答案翻成中文 : : 老師在替他們評分 : : 想想我們在國外念書 : : 要是英文不夠好 : : 老師會體諒嗎 : : 會考量我們母語非英文而給我們高分嗎 : : 有可能接受我們用中文寫報告寫考卷嗎 : : 根本是不可能的事情 : : 客氣一點的,看你英文寫的不夠好,講的不夠好 : : 給你一個稍微低一點的分數 : : 狠一點的直接丟回來 : : 叫你去writing center全部重改 : : 常常覺得僑生外籍生在台灣念書真是一件幸福的事情 --

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