最後一句有点偏激 呵呵 我相信你的经验是很多留学生共有的经验 可是不要忘记 其实他们骨子里已经是美国人了 即使他们也许是第二代或是第三代移民 何不就把他们当老外看待就好? 交朋友是跨越种族国界的 何不依照个性性情 而不是国籍或种族来交朋友呢? 另外 为什麽你的英文不好 何况我相信也有一大票其他人当时懒得理你吧 为什麽期待同种族的人一定要对你有耐性? 美国的高中其实有点残酷的... 我不是叫你要接受现实 而是说 与其浪费时间精力自怨自艾 或是 把这种情况归咎於 "当亚洲人就是比不上白人 所以连当地的亚裔都很自卑 所以才不理我" 这样子对你没好处 不如先把这种想法放一边 多去和对你好的人亲近 告诉自己这世界的好人真多 对你比较好 也许我比较天真 但这样想的我比较快乐 ※ 引述《nancy75822 ()》之铭言： : I can't type chinese here. just let you guys know ^^ : my experience was different, wheni first came to the U.S. the teachers or : school faculties were very nice to me cuz they know how hard it is to : study in a foreign country. but those Asian Americans are nothing nice like : that, they wouldn't talk to me or hang out w me cuz i'm fob. : (that was back in high school) : 4 years later i saw those ppl in the college and they are a LOT nicer to me : cuz i speak better english now, and they actually wanna invite me to : thier events or parties. I asked those girls, why were you so rude to me : when i first came here . I was away from home, helpless. none of yall provided : any assistance, all you guys did just look at me weird and think i was not : good enough to talk to you cuz my english sucked. : I really don't need friends who are shallow and prejudicial. : I think some asian AMERICANS hate fobs and they secretly hate how fobby their : parents are and feel so ashamed of their accent. : I know some girls who ONLY date white guys or hang out with white ppl. : they think they are white, and they wanna be white. : I think they should holocaust themselves if they really hate their own race. : ※ 引述《catchpw (catchpw)》之铭言： : : 不要说行政单位的办事人员了 : : 在台湾,教授在课堂上也普遍对侨生外籍生优惠客气很多 : : 很多外籍生中文不好 : : 老师就自动降低评分标准让他们过 : : 或者允许他们用英文,甚至是日文写考卷 : : 然後老师在自己请其他学生把他们的答案翻成中文 : : 老师在替他们评分 : : 想想我们在国外念书 : : 要是英文不够好 : : 老师会体谅吗 : : 会考量我们母语非英文而给我们高分吗 : : 有可能接受我们用中文写报告写考卷吗 : : 根本是不可能的事情 : : 客气一点的,看你英文写的不够好,讲的不够好 : : 给你一个稍微低一点的分数 : : 狠一点的直接丢回来 : : 叫你去writing center全部重改 : : 常常觉得侨生外籍生在台湾念书真是一件幸福的事情 --

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