It's one thing to make a decision and to review it afterward. That's always a wise thing to do, dear Moonchild. It's another thing entirely to review, go back and review again, and then constantly dwell on a choice you have already made. That's overthinking! You tend to do a lot of that - sometimes to serve your desire for an idyllic life by trying to control exactly how it happens. Today, decide that the choice you made was the best one possible, and then let it go. 做決定是一回事，而事後檢視那個決定就又是另一回事了。這樣做永遠都是明智的， 親愛的月之子。而反覆回顧、回頭再檢視，然後持續想著、糾結著你已經做出的決定， 那又是另一回事了。那叫想太多！你有常常想太多的傾向——有時候是藉由試圖掌控 一切的走向來滿足自己對理想化生活的渴望。今天，要下定決心你已經做出的決定就 是當時可能做出的最佳解了，然後就釋懷吧。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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