It's one thing to make a decision and to review it afterward. That's always a wise thing to do, dear Moonchild. It's another thing entirely to review, go back and review again, and then constantly dwell on a choice you have already made. That's overthinking! You tend to do a lot of that - sometimes to serve your desire for an idyllic life by trying to control exactly how it happens. Today, decide that the choice you made was the best one possible, and then let it go. 做决定是一回事，而事後检视那个决定就又是另一回事了。这样做永远都是明智的， 亲爱的月之子。而反覆回顾、回头再检视，然後持续想着、纠结着你已经做出的决定， 那又是另一回事了。那叫想太多！你有常常想太多的倾向——有时候是藉由试图掌控 一切的走向来满足自己对理想化生活的渴望。今天，要下定决心你已经做出的决定就 是当时可能做出的最佳解了，然後就释怀吧。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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