在處理完一場危機或問題之後，回頭看時，往往會更清楚自己「本該怎麼做」才會更好。 而當事情沒有如願時，你就容易責怪自己，覺得「我早該知道得更好」。 親愛的月之子，你有時甚至會為一些自己根本沒做的事感到內疚，而今天你可能正有這樣 的感覺。 你覺得自己當初應該用不同的方式去處理某件事。 這種「事後才明白」的領悟是常有的事，畢竟事後回想總是特別清楚。 放過自己吧，別過太苛求。 當你放下後，就會發現這根本不算什麼大問題。 既然你現在知道「應該怎麼做」了，那就從現在開始去做就好。 After you handle a crisis or a problem, it's easier to see what you should hav e done if it didn't work out. Then you tend to blame yourself because you thin k you should have known better. You sometimes feel guilty for things you didn' t even do, dear Cancer, and you may be feeling that way today. You think you s hould have handled something differently. You are experiencing this revelation after the fact, and as you know, hindsight is twenty-twenty. Give yourself a break. If you relax, you'll see that this isn't really a problem at all. Now t hat you know what you "should have" done, just do it. --

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