在处理完一场危机或问题之後，回头看时，往往会更清楚自己「本该怎麽做」才会更好。 而当事情没有如愿时，你就容易责怪自己，觉得「我早该知道得更好」。 亲爱的月之子，你有时甚至会为一些自己根本没做的事感到内疚，而今天你可能正有这样 的感觉。 你觉得自己当初应该用不同的方式去处理某件事。 这种「事後才明白」的领悟是常有的事，毕竟事後回想总是特别清楚。 放过自己吧，别过太苛求。 当你放下後，就会发现这根本不算什麽大问题。 既然你现在知道「应该怎麽做」了，那就从现在开始去做就好。 After you handle a crisis or a problem, it's easier to see what you should hav e done if it didn't work out. Then you tend to blame yourself because you thin k you should have known better. You sometimes feel guilty for things you didn' t even do, dear Cancer, and you may be feeling that way today. You think you s hould have handled something differently. You are experiencing this revelation after the fact, and as you know, hindsight is twenty-twenty. Give yourself a break. If you relax, you'll see that this isn't really a problem at all. Now t hat you know what you "should have" done, just do it. --

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