你傾向於在工作和生活中，一旦事情出了差錯，就責怪自己。 你覺得自己要為所有人、所有事負責，有時甚至認為你本應能防止任何問題的發生。 你之所以承擔這些重擔，是因為你有衝勁、有抱負，而且非常有道德感，巨蟹座。 然而，你現在可能正因某件事責怪自己——或許是因為別人錯誤地把責任推到你身上—— 而且這種負擔已經壓在你心頭許久。 試著客觀看待這件事，或向客觀的旁觀者尋求意見。 你會發現自己根本沒有任何值得內疚的地方，你需要讓自己獲得自由。 You tend to blame yourself when things go wrong in both your work and your per sonal life. You feel responsible for everyone and everything, and you sometime s believe you should have been able to prevent any problems from arising. You take on those burdens because you are driven, ambitious, and highly ethical, C ancer. Yet you may be blaming yourself for something now - perhaps because som eone else wrongly blamed you - and it's been weighing you down for a long time . Look at this objectively, or get feedback from objective observers. You'll f ind that you have nothing whatsoever to feel bad about, and you need to set yo urself free. --

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