你倾向於在工作和生活中，一旦事情出了差错，就责怪自己。 你觉得自己要为所有人、所有事负责，有时甚至认为你本应能防止任何问题的发生。 你之所以承担这些重担，是因为你有冲劲、有抱负，而且非常有道德感，巨蟹座。 然而，你现在可能正因某件事责怪自己——或许是因为别人错误地把责任推到你身上—— 而且这种负担已经压在你心头许久。 试着客观看待这件事，或向客观的旁观者寻求意见。 你会发现自己根本没有任何值得内疚的地方，你需要让自己获得自由。 You tend to blame yourself when things go wrong in both your work and your per sonal life. You feel responsible for everyone and everything, and you sometime s believe you should have been able to prevent any problems from arising. You take on those burdens because you are driven, ambitious, and highly ethical, C ancer. Yet you may be blaming yourself for something now - perhaps because som eone else wrongly blamed you - and it's been weighing you down for a long time . Look at this objectively, or get feedback from objective observers. You'll f ind that you have nothing whatsoever to feel bad about, and you need to set yo urself free. --

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