最近可能有人對你說了一些苛刻、批評，甚至只是愚蠢的話，而你可能感到強烈想要回應 並為自己辯護。 當別人發表錯誤或不公平的言論時，確實會讓人感到很糟，說出心聲似乎是唯一的應對方 式。 但這也可能帶來焦慮與煩惱，親愛的月之子，而且還可能讓對方繼續挑釁。 其實有更好的方式來處理這件事：放下它吧！ 要明白，別人的無知觀點對你而言毫無意義。 這才是真正最好的反擊。 Someone may have said something to you recently that was harsh or critical or simply foolish, and you may feel compelled to answer back and defend yourself. It can feel terrible when someone makes a statement that is wrong or unfair, and speaking up feels like the only way to handle it - yet that can also bring anxiety and upset, dear Moonchild, and it can also keep the taunts going. The re is a better way to deal with it. Let it go! Recognize that someone else's i gnorant opinion is meaningless to you. That's the best kind of vindication. --

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