最近可能有人对你说了一些苛刻、批评，甚至只是愚蠢的话，而你可能感到强烈想要回应 并为自己辩护。 当别人发表错误或不公平的言论时，确实会让人感到很糟，说出心声似乎是唯一的应对方 式。 但这也可能带来焦虑与烦恼，亲爱的月之子，而且还可能让对方继续挑衅。 其实有更好的方式来处理这件事：放下它吧！ 要明白，别人的无知观点对你而言毫无意义。 这才是真正最好的反击。 Someone may have said something to you recently that was harsh or critical or simply foolish, and you may feel compelled to answer back and defend yourself. It can feel terrible when someone makes a statement that is wrong or unfair, and speaking up feels like the only way to handle it - yet that can also bring anxiety and upset, dear Moonchild, and it can also keep the taunts going. The re is a better way to deal with it. Let it go! Recognize that someone else's i gnorant opinion is meaningless to you. That's the best kind of vindication. --

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