有一個你在乎的人，在你真正需要他們的時候卻沒有出現在你身邊。 即使這可能已經是很久以前的事了，親愛的巨蟹座，你仍然無法忘記或釋懷。 你非常重視忠誠，而且你自己也是個極度忠誠的人，所以你有理由期望他人也能以同樣的 方式對待你。 然而，對方可能並沒有意識到他們讓你失望了。 他們或許不知道，那個時候他們的陪伴對你來說有多麼重要。 我們都不是完美的。 如果你覺得有必要談談這件事，那就開口吧。 至少給對方一個機會去了解並解釋。 溝通是關鍵，而你完全有能力成為一位出色的溝通者。 你可以用溫柔而有愛的方式來表達，同時也保持堅定的立場。 Someone you care about was not there for you during a time when you really nee ded them. Even though this may have been a long time ago, dear Cancer, you can 't forget it or let it go. You value loyalty, and you are extremely loyal your self, so it's not like you don't deserve to expect the same from others. Howev er, the other party may not realize that they let you down. They may not have recognized that their presence was so important to you at the time. None of us is perfect. If you need to talk about it, talk about it. At least give the ot her party a chance to understand and explain. Communication is key, and you ca n be a master communicator. You can do this in a way that is gentle and loving , but also firm. --

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