有一个你在乎的人，在你真正需要他们的时候却没有出现在你身边。 即使这可能已经是很久以前的事了，亲爱的巨蟹座，你仍然无法忘记或释怀。 你非常重视忠诚，而且你自己也是个极度忠诚的人，所以你有理由期望他人也能以同样的 方式对待你。 然而，对方可能并没有意识到他们让你失望了。 他们或许不知道，那个时候他们的陪伴对你来说有多麽重要。 我们都不是完美的。 如果你觉得有必要谈谈这件事，那就开口吧。 至少给对方一个机会去了解并解释。 沟通是关键，而你完全有能力成为一位出色的沟通者。 你可以用温柔而有爱的方式来表达，同时也保持坚定的立场。 Someone you care about was not there for you during a time when you really nee ded them. Even though this may have been a long time ago, dear Cancer, you can 't forget it or let it go. You value loyalty, and you are extremely loyal your self, so it's not like you don't deserve to expect the same from others. Howev er, the other party may not realize that they let you down. They may not have recognized that their presence was so important to you at the time. None of us is perfect. If you need to talk about it, talk about it. At least give the ot her party a chance to understand and explain. Communication is key, and you ca n be a master communicator. You can do this in a way that is gentle and loving , but also firm. --

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