當一個人原諒了曾經傷害自己的人，這並不代表他們就此放過對方所犯的錯誤。 這意味著他們接受了人類本就不完美，會犯錯的事實。 選擇原諒的人也可能認為，或許還有一些自己不知道的背景，可以解釋事情的發生，即便 這並不能完全使錯誤變得可以被接受。 親愛的孩子，你在生活中的許多領域都是個完美主義者，因此你可能很難理解這個概念。 你相信錯就是錯。 然而，如果你能試著接受這樣的原諒觀點，你就能將曾經的傷痛放下，從中走出來。 本週，你或許會有這樣的機會，而當你做到時，會感受到一種明顯的自由與釋放感。 本週也可能帶給你一波喜悅，當你遇到的人回應了你對他們的情感，或者認同了你對自己 的深刻信念。 這將會是個美好的時刻。 到了週末，你可能會得到一個答案，雖然這並不是你所期待的，但它實際上能引導你走上 一條比你原本走的路更好的道路。 When a person forgives someone who has wronged them, it does not mean they let them off the hook for whatever they did wrong. It means they accept that huma n beings are not perfect, and they make mistakes. Someone who forgives might a lso assume that there are things they don't know that might explain what happe ned, even if it doesn't make it okay. You are a purist in many areas of life, dear Cancer, and you may have a hard time grasping this concept. You believe t hat wrong is wrong. However, if you can try to accept this explanation of forg iveness, you can put a hurt behind you and walk away from it. This week, you m ay have the chance to do that, and when you do, there will be a palpable feeli ng of freedom and relief. This week may also bring you a surge of joy when som eone you meet either reciprocates your feelings for them or validates somethin g you believe deeply about yourself. This will be a wonderful moment. By the w eekend, an answer that comes to you may not be what you were hoping for, but i t can actually lead you down a significantly better path than the one you have been traveling. --

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