当一个人原谅了曾经伤害自己的人，这并不代表他们就此放过对方所犯的错误。 这意味着他们接受了人类本就不完美，会犯错的事实。 选择原谅的人也可能认为，或许还有一些自己不知道的背景，可以解释事情的发生，即便 这并不能完全使错误变得可以被接受。 亲爱的孩子，你在生活中的许多领域都是个完美主义者，因此你可能很难理解这个概念。 你相信错就是错。 然而，如果你能试着接受这样的原谅观点，你就能将曾经的伤痛放下，从中走出来。 本周，你或许会有这样的机会，而当你做到时，会感受到一种明显的自由与释放感。 本周也可能带给你一波喜悦，当你遇到的人回应了你对他们的情感，或者认同了你对自己 的深刻信念。 这将会是个美好的时刻。 到了周末，你可能会得到一个答案，虽然这并不是你所期待的，但它实际上能引导你走上 一条比你原本走的路更好的道路。 When a person forgives someone who has wronged them, it does not mean they let them off the hook for whatever they did wrong. It means they accept that huma n beings are not perfect, and they make mistakes. Someone who forgives might a lso assume that there are things they don't know that might explain what happe ned, even if it doesn't make it okay. You are a purist in many areas of life, dear Cancer, and you may have a hard time grasping this concept. You believe t hat wrong is wrong. However, if you can try to accept this explanation of forg iveness, you can put a hurt behind you and walk away from it. This week, you m ay have the chance to do that, and when you do, there will be a palpable feeli ng of freedom and relief. This week may also bring you a surge of joy when som eone you meet either reciprocates your feelings for them or validates somethin g you believe deeply about yourself. This will be a wonderful moment. By the w eekend, an answer that comes to you may not be what you were hoping for, but i t can actually lead you down a significantly better path than the one you have been traveling. --

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