無論你多麼善良、多麼幽默、多麼慷慨或多麼有見地，你都無法讓別人一定喜歡你。 親愛的月之子，現在的你可能正在責怪自己，因為某段關係沒有如你所願地開花結果。 你傾向於在即使自己無法掌控的情況下也責怪自己，因為你常常會把所有責任往自己身上 攬。 然而，一旦你意識到自己已經盡力了，但結果並不在你的掌控之中，你就可以學著放下。 他們也許終究會回頭，但即使沒有，你依然可以過得快樂。 No matter how kind, how funny, how generous, and how insightful you may be, yo u can't make someone else like you. Right now, dear Moonchild, you may be blam ing yourself because a relationship has not blossomed as you wished it would h ave. You are inclined to find fault with yourself even in situations where you have no control because, often, your way of thinking causes you to take respo nsibility for everything. However, once you recognize that you did your best b ut had no control over the outcome, you can let it go. They may come around, b ut even if they don't, you can be happy without that. --

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