无论你多麽善良、多麽幽默、多麽慷慨或多麽有见地，你都无法让别人一定喜欢你。 亲爱的月之子，现在的你可能正在责怪自己，因为某段关系没有如你所愿地开花结果。 你倾向於在即使自己无法掌控的情况下也责怪自己，因为你常常会把所有责任往自己身上 揽。 然而，一旦你意识到自己已经尽力了，但结果并不在你的掌控之中，你就可以学着放下。 他们也许终究会回头，但即使没有，你依然可以过得快乐。 No matter how kind, how funny, how generous, and how insightful you may be, yo u can't make someone else like you. Right now, dear Moonchild, you may be blam ing yourself because a relationship has not blossomed as you wished it would h ave. You are inclined to find fault with yourself even in situations where you have no control because, often, your way of thinking causes you to take respo nsibility for everything. However, once you recognize that you did your best b ut had no control over the outcome, you can let it go. They may come around, b ut even if they don't, you can be happy without that. --

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