如果你持續讚美一個孩子在學習某件事時表現得多麼好；例如學會綁鞋帶或寫下字母表， 那麼他們將會逐漸建立對這件事情的信心，甚至在整體上變得更有自信。他們最終會掌握 正在學習的技能，並且對自己感到滿意。 親愛的月之子，這同樣也適用於大人。 你或許正對自己能否掌握一項對未來發展很重要的技能感到不安。 請持續告訴自己你有多棒。 試著回想過去的例子，是的，你有很多成功的經驗。給自己打打氣，持續相信自己。 你擁有的才能，遠比你自己所認知的還要多。 If you were to continually praise a child for how well they do something they are learning - such as tying their shoes or writing down their ABCs - they wou ld slowly gain more and more confidence for doing this particular thing, as we ll as in general. They will eventually master what they're learning, and they' ll feel good about themselves. The same thing applies to adults, dear Moonchil d. You may be feeling very insecure about your ability to master something you need to do to set your future on a promising path. Keep telling yourself how great you are. Search for examples from your past - yes, there are many of the m. Give yourself a pep talk and keep believing in yourself. You have far more talent than you acknowledge. --

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