如果你持续赞美一个孩子在学习某件事时表现得多麽好；例如学会绑鞋带或写下字母表， 那麽他们将会逐渐建立对这件事情的信心，甚至在整体上变得更有自信。他们最终会掌握 正在学习的技能，并且对自己感到满意。 亲爱的月之子，这同样也适用於大人。 你或许正对自己能否掌握一项对未来发展很重要的技能感到不安。 请持续告诉自己你有多棒。 试着回想过去的例子，是的，你有很多成功的经验。给自己打打气，持续相信自己。 你拥有的才能，远比你自己所认知的还要多。 If you were to continually praise a child for how well they do something they are learning - such as tying their shoes or writing down their ABCs - they wou ld slowly gain more and more confidence for doing this particular thing, as we ll as in general. They will eventually master what they're learning, and they' ll feel good about themselves. The same thing applies to adults, dear Moonchil d. You may be feeling very insecure about your ability to master something you need to do to set your future on a promising path. Keep telling yourself how great you are. Search for examples from your past - yes, there are many of the m. Give yourself a pep talk and keep believing in yourself. You have far more talent than you acknowledge. --

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