你不必為自己選擇的處理個人窘境的方式辯解。 事實上，月之子，你可能認為這是自己唯一可以選擇的處理方式。 其他人可能會出於善意試圖干涉，因為他們認為他們知道更好的方法，可能與寬恕有關， 但他們並不了解所有情況。 此時此刻，你正以你所知道的唯一方式處理問題。 這很好。 只要確保你已經盡力而為，並且不要將內疚、悲傷或恐懼內化。 當其他人意識到他們的錯誤時，情況將會變得更好。 You do not have to justify the way you have chosen to handle a difficult perso nal situation. In fact, Cancer, you might think it is the only choice you have on how to handle it. Others may attempt to lovingly interfere because they th ink they know a better way, which may have to do with forgiveness, but they do not know all there is to know. You are, at this time, handling the issue in t he only way you know. That's great. Just be sure you are making the best of it and not internalizing guilt, sadness, or fear. This will get better when othe rs see the error of their ways. --

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