你不必为自己选择的处理个人窘境的方式辩解。 事实上，月之子，你可能认为这是自己唯一可以选择的处理方式。 其他人可能会出於善意试图干涉，因为他们认为他们知道更好的方法，可能与宽恕有关， 但他们并不了解所有情况。 此时此刻，你正以你所知道的唯一方式处理问题。 这很好。 只要确保你已经尽力而为，并且不要将内疚、悲伤或恐惧内化。 当其他人意识到他们的错误时，情况将会变得更好。 You do not have to justify the way you have chosen to handle a difficult perso nal situation. In fact, Cancer, you might think it is the only choice you have on how to handle it. Others may attempt to lovingly interfere because they th ink they know a better way, which may have to do with forgiveness, but they do not know all there is to know. You are, at this time, handling the issue in t he only way you know. That's great. Just be sure you are making the best of it and not internalizing guilt, sadness, or fear. This will get better when othe rs see the error of their ways. --

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