你可能曾經給了一個尋求你智慧的人一些不好的建議。 當然，你當時的初衷是好的。然而，最近你學到了一些事情，這些事情讓你看到了不同的 面向。 你應該一言不發的等待它過去？還是你要發聲做些損害控制？ 後者顯然是更好的選擇。 你不僅能夠防止任何後果，而且那個人對你的信任也會保持不變。 有人一直越過你認為你已經很明確的界限。 你不是一個想直接坦白說出你畫出這個界限的原因的人，但你可能得這麼做。 這週，坦誠相對，分享你的理由。 如果你這麼做，你不會後悔，但如果你不這麼做，你可能會創造一個更尷尬的情況。 你可能對某個人束手無策，因為他在工作中或重要的項目上不斷犯錯。 你可能會想要發送一封憤怒且批評性的信件或著電話，這樣做可能會非常刺耳。 然而，在你這麼做之前，你需要想出一種更好的溝通方式來表達問題。 如果你試著用積極的鼓勵而不是負面的批評來引導問題走向更好的方向，無論是工作成果 或者是相關人員的心情都會變得更好。 請選擇積極的路線。 Cancer horoscope for 8月 14 - 8月 20 You may have given what you now see as bad advice to someone who came seeking your wisdom. At the time, of course, your intentions were the best, and you th ought that your guidance was superb. However, something you may have learned r ecently has shown you otherwise. Should you just wait for it to blow over, say ing nothing? Or, Moonchild, should you speak up and do some damage control? Th e latter is certainly the better option. Not only will you be able to prevent any fallout, but that person's trust in you will remain intact. Someone keeps crossing a boundary that you believe you made very clear. You aren't one to wa nt to bare your soul to express the reasons you drew that boundary in the firs t place, but you might have to. This week, have a heart-to-heart and share you r reasons. You won't be sorry if you do, but you might create an even more awk ward situation if you don't. You may be at your wit's end with someone who kee ps making mistakes at work or on a personal project that is important to you. You may be on the verge of launching an angry and critical email or phone call that could be very stinging. However, before you do, you need to come up with a better way of communicating what's wrong. If you try to steer this in a bet ter direction with positive reinforcement rather than with negative criticism, you can make things better both in the work that comes out of this and in the mood of those involved. Choose the positive route.ꀊ ------------------------------------------- 我不想要選擇積極的路線...（被同事搞到眼神死，每天都做與客戶意見相反的事情） --

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