你可能曾经给了一个寻求你智慧的人一些不好的建议。 当然，你当时的初衷是好的。然而，最近你学到了一些事情，这些事情让你看到了不同的 面向。 你应该一言不发的等待它过去？还是你要发声做些损害控制？ 後者显然是更好的选择。 你不仅能够防止任何後果，而且那个人对你的信任也会保持不变。 有人一直越过你认为你已经很明确的界限。 你不是一个想直接坦白说出你画出这个界限的原因的人，但你可能得这麽做。 这周，坦诚相对，分享你的理由。 如果你这麽做，你不会後悔，但如果你不这麽做，你可能会创造一个更尴尬的情况。 你可能对某个人束手无策，因为他在工作中或重要的项目上不断犯错。 你可能会想要发送一封愤怒且批评性的信件或着电话，这样做可能会非常刺耳。 然而，在你这麽做之前，你需要想出一种更好的沟通方式来表达问题。 如果你试着用积极的鼓励而不是负面的批评来引导问题走向更好的方向，无论是工作成果 或者是相关人员的心情都会变得更好。 请选择积极的路线。 Cancer horoscope for 8月 14 - 8月 20 You may have given what you now see as bad advice to someone who came seeking your wisdom. At the time, of course, your intentions were the best, and you th ought that your guidance was superb. However, something you may have learned r ecently has shown you otherwise. Should you just wait for it to blow over, say ing nothing? Or, Moonchild, should you speak up and do some damage control? Th e latter is certainly the better option. Not only will you be able to prevent any fallout, but that person's trust in you will remain intact. Someone keeps crossing a boundary that you believe you made very clear. You aren't one to wa nt to bare your soul to express the reasons you drew that boundary in the firs t place, but you might have to. This week, have a heart-to-heart and share you r reasons. You won't be sorry if you do, but you might create an even more awk ward situation if you don't. You may be at your wit's end with someone who kee ps making mistakes at work or on a personal project that is important to you. You may be on the verge of launching an angry and critical email or phone call that could be very stinging. However, before you do, you need to come up with a better way of communicating what's wrong. If you try to steer this in a bet ter direction with positive reinforcement rather than with negative criticism, you can make things better both in the work that comes out of this and in the mood of those involved. Choose the positive route.ꀊ ------------------------------------------- 我不想要选择积极的路线...（被同事搞到眼神死，每天都做与客户意见相反的事情） --

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