你為你生命中的某個人做了很多事，以至於他們開始依賴你了。 這可能不是他們的本意，甚至可能不是他們的錯。 當他們遇到麻煩或挑戰時，月之子，你已經介入並且站了出來。 但你需要思考這樣一個概念：透過處理他們的問題，你某種程度上正在『無意的』欺騙他 們。 問題提供了建立信心和解決問題的技能的機會。 幫助他們可能也是對你的一種依賴。 你可以在不做繁重工作的情況下給予支持和愛就好了。 Cancer horoscope for 星期六 10月 22 You have done so much for a certain person in your life that they have come to rely on you. It may not have been their intention, and it may not even be the ir fault. But when they have come across troubles or challenges, Moonchild, yo u have stepped in and stepped up. But you need to think about the concept that by handling their problems, you are cheating them - unintentionally - on some level. Problems offer the chance to build confidence and problem-solving skil ls. Plus, helping them might be a dependency for you too. You can love and giv e support without doing the heavy lifting. ------------------------------------ 新手媽媽不定期渣渣翻譯，翻錯請見諒。 --

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