你为你生命中的某个人做了很多事，以至於他们开始依赖你了。 这可能不是他们的本意，甚至可能不是他们的错。 当他们遇到麻烦或挑战时，月之子，你已经介入并且站了出来。 但你需要思考这样一个概念：透过处理他们的问题，你某种程度上正在『无意的』欺骗他 们。 问题提供了建立信心和解决问题的技能的机会。 帮助他们可能也是对你的一种依赖。 你可以在不做繁重工作的情况下给予支持和爱就好了。 Cancer horoscope for 星期六 10月 22 You have done so much for a certain person in your life that they have come to rely on you. It may not have been their intention, and it may not even be the ir fault. But when they have come across troubles or challenges, Moonchild, yo u have stepped in and stepped up. But you need to think about the concept that by handling their problems, you are cheating them - unintentionally - on some level. Problems offer the chance to build confidence and problem-solving skil ls. Plus, helping them might be a dependency for you too. You can love and giv e support without doing the heavy lifting. ------------------------------------ 新手妈妈不定期渣渣翻译，翻错请见谅。 --

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