You may be looking at an old mistake - or perhaps many of your old mistakes - in a way that is self-blaming, harsh, and regretful. You may be wondering what might have been if only you had done things the right way. But that's what life is all about, dear Cancer. It's a learning experience. We evolve as we go. We can't know everything the moment we are born, and so much, if not most of life is trial and error. You need to look at your past mistakes through a veil of kindness and acceptance. Only then will you give yourself the credit that you deserve and the ability to move forward with all of your power. 你也許正在檢視以前犯下的過錯—或許是很多個過錯—用一種自責、嚴厲、懊悔的方 式檢視。你可能會想知道如果當時自己用對的方式做事，那現在會是怎麼樣？不過這 就是人生啊，親愛的巨蟹。這是學習而來的經驗，當我們隨著時間流逝就會進步。我 們沒辦法在出生的時候就知道所有事情，人生就是不斷的反覆試驗，不斷探索。你必 須以和善與接納的姿態來看待以往的過錯，唯有如此，你才能在自己的所有力量之下， 賦予自己應得的讚賞，還有往前邁進的能力。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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