You may be looking at an old mistake - or perhaps many of your old mistakes - in a way that is self-blaming, harsh, and regretful. You may be wondering what might have been if only you had done things the right way. But that's what life is all about, dear Cancer. It's a learning experience. We evolve as we go. We can't know everything the moment we are born, and so much, if not most of life is trial and error. You need to look at your past mistakes through a veil of kindness and acceptance. Only then will you give yourself the credit that you deserve and the ability to move forward with all of your power. 你也许正在检视以前犯下的过错—或许是很多个过错—用一种自责、严厉、懊悔的方 式检视。你可能会想知道如果当时自己用对的方式做事，那现在会是怎麽样？不过这 就是人生啊，亲爱的巨蟹。这是学习而来的经验，当我们随着时间流逝就会进步。我 们没办法在出生的时候就知道所有事情，人生就是不断的反覆试验，不断探索。你必 须以和善与接纳的姿态来看待以往的过错，唯有如此，你才能在自己的所有力量之下， 赋予自己应得的赞赏，还有往前迈进的能力。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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