If you have ever had to work on something with someone that you didn't like, you are surely aware that it certainly can be done. You can separate your issues from the task at hand and work together for the greater good - especially when you each have something positive to gain from the collaboration. During that time, you probably don't dwell on whatever contention there is between you, and you may even come to admire each other on some level. But when it's a family member or someone close that you're at odds with, it can be harder because you know each other's hot buttons and weak spots all too well. But this can be done too, and today you can prove that to yourself. Concentrate on the matter at hand, and you may surprise yourself, Moonchild. 如果你曾經必須跟某個人合作一件你不喜歡的事，你一定會很清楚那件事可以做好， 你可以為了理想而把私人情緒跟工作分開——尤其是當你們雙方都能從合作當中得到 好處的時候。在這段期間，你或許不會執著於彼此之間的爭執，而你可能甚至會開始 在某種程度上欣賞彼此。不過當這個意見不合是跟家人或很親近的人的時候，這就會 變得更困難了，因為你太清楚彼此的地雷跟弱點了。但是這也可以處理好的，今天你 就可以向自己證明這件事。專心處理手邊的事，而你也許會讓自己大吃一驚，月之子。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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