If you have ever had to work on something with someone that you didn't like, you are surely aware that it certainly can be done. You can separate your issues from the task at hand and work together for the greater good - especially when you each have something positive to gain from the collaboration. During that time, you probably don't dwell on whatever contention there is between you, and you may even come to admire each other on some level. But when it's a family member or someone close that you're at odds with, it can be harder because you know each other's hot buttons and weak spots all too well. But this can be done too, and today you can prove that to yourself. Concentrate on the matter at hand, and you may surprise yourself, Moonchild. 如果你曾经必须跟某个人合作一件你不喜欢的事，你一定会很清楚那件事可以做好， 你可以为了理想而把私人情绪跟工作分开——尤其是当你们双方都能从合作当中得到 好处的时候。在这段期间，你或许不会执着於彼此之间的争执，而你可能甚至会开始 在某种程度上欣赏彼此。不过当这个意见不合是跟家人或很亲近的人的时候，这就会 变得更困难了，因为你太清楚彼此的地雷跟弱点了。但是这也可以处理好的，今天你 就可以向自己证明这件事。专心处理手边的事，而你也许会让自己大吃一惊，月之子。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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