When you don't particularly like or trust someone, and what you feel is showing in your demeanor, that person is far more likely to prove you right. People become defensive and hurt when they believe they are not liked or trusted. But if you treat someone with the same respect and kindness you would extend to someone that you do like and trust, you're likely to get a better result. Kindness and faith are contagious in a way, and it cannot hurt you to assume the best, Moonchild. 當你特別不喜歡或是不信任某個人的時候，你所感受到的就會在你的言行之中表現出 來，而你的言行也會證明你對那個人的觀察是對的。人們在認為自己不受喜愛或信任 的時候會變得受傷跟有防禦心。可是如果你用同等的尊重與和善對待某個人，就像你 對待你所喜愛與信任的人一樣，那你可能會得到更好的結果。和善與信念在某些層面 來說都是有感染力的，而這不會讓你在追求獲得最好的過程中受傷，月之子。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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