When you don't particularly like or trust someone, and what you feel is showing in your demeanor, that person is far more likely to prove you right. People become defensive and hurt when they believe they are not liked or trusted. But if you treat someone with the same respect and kindness you would extend to someone that you do like and trust, you're likely to get a better result. Kindness and faith are contagious in a way, and it cannot hurt you to assume the best, Moonchild. 当你特别不喜欢或是不信任某个人的时候，你所感受到的就会在你的言行之中表现出 来，而你的言行也会证明你对那个人的观察是对的。人们在认为自己不受喜爱或信任 的时候会变得受伤跟有防御心。可是如果你用同等的尊重与和善对待某个人，就像你 对待你所喜爱与信任的人一样，那你可能会得到更好的结果。和善与信念在某些层面 来说都是有感染力的，而这不会让你在追求获得最好的过程中受伤，月之子。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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