When you try to convince someone to align with your way of thinking, you might think a debate about the subject at hand will possibly be the best way. This way you can convey all of the most important points, you can knock down any objections, and you can show why a certain approach is better and therefore more preferable. But there may be a better way to go with a situation you are facing now, dear Moonchild. If you demonstrate by taking action rather than by talking about it, you will have a much stronger case. 當你試圖說服某個人跟你用同樣的方式思考，你也許會認為隨時準備好針對這個主題 的辯論很可能就是最好的方式，如此一來，你可以表達所有最重要的觀點，也可以擊 垮任何反對的論點，並且展示出為什麼某個方式比較好，所以更適合。但是你現在所 面臨的狀況或許有更好的處理方式，親愛的月之子。如果你藉由採取行動而不是溝通 的方式來表明，那麼你將會有更堅定的說服力。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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