When you try to convince someone to align with your way of thinking, you might think a debate about the subject at hand will possibly be the best way. This way you can convey all of the most important points, you can knock down any objections, and you can show why a certain approach is better and therefore more preferable. But there may be a better way to go with a situation you are facing now, dear Moonchild. If you demonstrate by taking action rather than by talking about it, you will have a much stronger case. 当你试图说服某个人跟你用同样的方式思考，你也许会认为随时准备好针对这个主题 的辩论很可能就是最好的方式，如此一来，你可以表达所有最重要的观点，也可以击 垮任何反对的论点，并且展示出为什麽某个方式比较好，所以更适合。但是你现在所 面临的状况或许有更好的处理方式，亲爱的月之子。如果你藉由采取行动而不是沟通 的方式来表明，那麽你将会有更坚定的说服力。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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