If you think about it, a fear of heights is more about a fear of falling rather than just being high up. If you walk to the top of a lighthouse to admire the view, for example, you won't fall if you stand behind the barrier. You may have a fear now that is unrealistic or rooted in the wrong thing, dear Moonchild, yet it may be holding you back in some way. If you could deconstruct it and try to see it in a more logical way, you may be able to end that fear and free yourself of it forever. Give it a try. 如果你願意想想看，怕高其實更像是害怕掉下去，而不只是站在高處而已。舉個例子， 如果你走上燈塔頂端眺望，如果你站在柵欄後方，你就不會掉下去。你現在可能很害 怕不切實際或是根源於錯的事物，親愛的月之子，可是這也許會以某種方式阻礙你。 如果你可以解構那份恐懼，並且試著以更理智的方式看待，或許你就可以終結那種恐 懼，然後永遠解放自己，試試看吧。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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