If you think about it, a fear of heights is more about a fear of falling rather than just being high up. If you walk to the top of a lighthouse to admire the view, for example, you won't fall if you stand behind the barrier. You may have a fear now that is unrealistic or rooted in the wrong thing, dear Moonchild, yet it may be holding you back in some way. If you could deconstruct it and try to see it in a more logical way, you may be able to end that fear and free yourself of it forever. Give it a try. 如果你愿意想想看，怕高其实更像是害怕掉下去，而不只是站在高处而已。举个例子， 如果你走上灯塔顶端眺望，如果你站在栅栏後方，你就不会掉下去。你现在可能很害 怕不切实际或是根源於错的事物，亲爱的月之子，可是这也许会以某种方式阻碍你。 如果你可以解构那份恐惧，并且试着以更理智的方式看待，或许你就可以终结那种恐 惧，然後永远解放自己，试试看吧。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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