Each time you are in the company of a certain person, it may feel like you are in a competition. This may cause you to always be on edge and irritated when around them, especially if this is a family member who knows how to push your buttons. This is not your doing, as you aren't usually competitive with those you care about. But to compete, this person needs your cooperation and participation. If you make it clear that you don't like this kind of exchange, and you don't engage in it, Moonchild, it will stop eventually. 每次你跟某個人相處的時候，你好像會覺得要跟他競爭，而這也許會讓你覺得快被他 煩死了，尤其是如果這個人是家人，而且他知道要怎麼激怒你的時候。這不像你會做 的事，因為你通常不會跟在乎的人計較。可是如果要比的話，這個人需要你的參與， 跟他合作。如果你表明清楚你不喜歡這種形式的交換，而且你不會加入，月之子，那 麼這件事終將會結束。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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