Each time you are in the company of a certain person, it may feel like you are in a competition. This may cause you to always be on edge and irritated when around them, especially if this is a family member who knows how to push your buttons. This is not your doing, as you aren't usually competitive with those you care about. But to compete, this person needs your cooperation and participation. If you make it clear that you don't like this kind of exchange, and you don't engage in it, Moonchild, it will stop eventually. 每次你跟某个人相处的时候，你好像会觉得要跟他竞争，而这也许会让你觉得快被他 烦死了，尤其是如果这个人是家人，而且他知道要怎麽激怒你的时候。这不像你会做 的事，因为你通常不会跟在乎的人计较。可是如果要比的话，这个人需要你的参与， 跟他合作。如果你表明清楚你不喜欢这种形式的交换，而且你不会加入，月之子，那 麽这件事终将会结束。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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