Do you feel that someone has been talking "at" you rather than directly "to" you on a matter of great importance? Whether this is business or personal, you have the right to be treated respectfully, Cancer. This person might be doing this a lot, especially to you, and you reached your limit long ago. Since you deserve respect but can't force someone to treat you right or do the right thing, it becomes a difficult situation to deal with. But you do have the power to step away and ignore what this person is saying - at least until they deliver their message properly. If you can't confront this person directly, there are more subtle ways to use - and still deliver - the message. 你是不是感覺到某個人在你背後指指點點，而不是直接跟你講某件很重要的事呢？不 論這是工作或私人的事，你都有權利要求對方尊重你，巨蟹。這個人可能老是這樣， 尤其是針對你，而你很早之前就忍無可忍了。因為你值得被尊重，但是你不能強迫別 人用正確的方式對待你，或是做對的事，所以現在的狀況很棘手。不過你確實有權離 開，以及忽視他所說的話——至少等到他們可以好好的說話，再來聽他們說什麼也不 遲。如果你沒辦法直接面對這個人，有一些隱微的方式可以使用，以及傳遞那些訊息。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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