Do you feel that someone has been talking "at" you rather than directly "to" you on a matter of great importance? Whether this is business or personal, you have the right to be treated respectfully, Cancer. This person might be doing this a lot, especially to you, and you reached your limit long ago. Since you deserve respect but can't force someone to treat you right or do the right thing, it becomes a difficult situation to deal with. But you do have the power to step away and ignore what this person is saying - at least until they deliver their message properly. If you can't confront this person directly, there are more subtle ways to use - and still deliver - the message. 你是不是感觉到某个人在你背後指指点点，而不是直接跟你讲某件很重要的事呢？不 论这是工作或私人的事，你都有权利要求对方尊重你，巨蟹。这个人可能老是这样， 尤其是针对你，而你很早之前就忍无可忍了。因为你值得被尊重，但是你不能强迫别 人用正确的方式对待你，或是做对的事，所以现在的状况很棘手。不过你确实有权离 开，以及忽视他所说的话——至少等到他们可以好好的说话，再来听他们说什麽也不 迟。如果你没办法直接面对这个人，有一些隐微的方式可以使用，以及传递那些讯息。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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