You may be tuning in to someone else's appraisal of you or some important work that you are doing. As you sometimes do, Cancer, you may be focusing on the words this person uses, their body language, and what you think they are thinking as they offer criticism. But this person's opinion should not be so important to you. You know what you are doing. You are knowledgeable and insightful, and if this person doesn't "get" what you have created, it is simply because they don't understand it, or they are not sophisticated enough to think that deeply. Tune in to your own appraisal. Let that be your guide. 你可能正在聆聽某人對你或是你正在做的某些重要工作的評價，巨蟹，你有時候會把 重點放在他用了什麼詞語、他的肢體語言，以及當他在批評你的時候，他在想什麼？ 但是這個人的意見其實沒那麼重要，你知道自己在做什麼，你有知識也有洞察力，如 果這個人不懂你在做什麼，那是因為他就是不懂，或是他不夠細心，沒辦法想得很透 徹。傾聽自己對自己的評價就好，並以此為指引，帶領自己走向想去的地方。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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