You may be tuning in to someone else's appraisal of you or some important work that you are doing. As you sometimes do, Cancer, you may be focusing on the words this person uses, their body language, and what you think they are thinking as they offer criticism. But this person's opinion should not be so important to you. You know what you are doing. You are knowledgeable and insightful, and if this person doesn't "get" what you have created, it is simply because they don't understand it, or they are not sophisticated enough to think that deeply. Tune in to your own appraisal. Let that be your guide. 你可能正在聆听某人对你或是你正在做的某些重要工作的评价，巨蟹，你有时候会把 重点放在他用了什麽词语、他的肢体语言，以及当他在批评你的时候，他在想什麽？ 但是这个人的意见其实没那麽重要，你知道自己在做什麽，你有知识也有洞察力，如 果这个人不懂你在做什麽，那是因为他就是不懂，或是他不够细心，没办法想得很透 彻。倾听自己对自己的评价就好，并以此为指引，带领自己走向想去的地方。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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