You may be toning down your message or handling someone with kid gloves when you should really be addressing an issue in a direct way - without the sugarcoating. If you continue to pacify a certain person with a glossed-over explanation, you will only have to explain yourself later when it all sinks in. The best way to handle this is to be candid, and state exactly how you feel and why. The whole truth, in this case, would be better than partial truth, Moonchild. ---- 當你該要以直接的方式不透過阿諛奉承來處理某件爭議時，你也許會溫和你說的 話，或是小心翼翼應付某位人物。但如果你繼續用粉飾的真相來平息這號人物， 但當一切真相大白後，你只得為自己所做的一切做好解釋。最好的方法來處理這 件事就是坦率面對，並陳述出你真實的感受及原因。在這件案例中，真相的全貌 會好過只知道部份的真相的，月之子。 ---- 渣翻求指點。 --

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