You may be toning down your message or handling someone with kid gloves when you should really be addressing an issue in a direct way - without the sugarcoating. If you continue to pacify a certain person with a glossed-over explanation, you will only have to explain yourself later when it all sinks in. The best way to handle this is to be candid, and state exactly how you feel and why. The whole truth, in this case, would be better than partial truth, Moonchild. ---- 当你该要以直接的方式不透过阿谀奉承来处理某件争议时，你也许会温和你说的 话，或是小心翼翼应付某位人物。但如果你继续用粉饰的真相来平息这号人物， 但当一切真相大白後，你只得为自己所做的一切做好解释。最好的方法来处理这 件事就是坦率面对，并陈述出你真实的感受及原因。在这件案例中，真相的全貌 会好过只知道部份的真相的，月之子。 ---- 渣翻求指点。 --

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