How can you reach someone who doesn't seem to be listening? How can you get through to someone who doesn't seem to understand? That's right, you can't reach someone if they refuse to go along, Moonchild, but you can get closer and closer to the point of being heard if you try. Someone does not want to hear what you have to say. There may be a refusal to explore an issue that is hard to deal with. But if you work at being a good friend and work on creating a support system, eventually you will turn this person's mind around, and then that person will become reachable. ---- 你要怎麼能不傾聽某人就能與對方溝通呢？你要怎麼能不理解某人就能夠明白對方 呢？沒錯，若是對方拒絕附合，你是無法溝通，月之子，但如果你嘗試的話，你可 以愈來愈接近對方，並讓自己的聲音被聽到。某人不想去聽到你要說的事。這也許 有個拒絕去探索，並且是相當難以解決的問題。但如果你作為一位好朋友有下過苦 心，並且彼此間有個很棒互助方式，那最終你會讓這號人物的想法給扭轉過來，屆 時他會變的好溝通的。 ---- 渣翻求指點。 --

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