You are, by nature, a nurturer. You protect your loved ones in a maternal or paternal way. You are often the one others run to when they need something. And your loved ones have gotten used to this. One of those loved ones, however, has gotten far too used to it, Moonchild. This person comes to you when the wind blows the wrong way, and you rush to the rescue. You have set a precedent, but you need to change it. Make it clear that you'll be there for those you care about when it's truly needed, but they will have to do for themselves otherwise. That's tough love. ---- 你天生就是個養育者。你會以做為父母的方式去保護你愛的人。當別人需要什麼事情的 時候，你通常是那位別人尋求援助的目標。並且你的摯愛己經習慣這樣子的方式。然而 ，你摯愛中的其中一位己經太習慣於此了，月之子。每當這號人物一有麻煩的時候，就 會尋求你的協助，而你也趕緊去前往營救。你己經有這樣的先例，但你需要去改變它。 明確的說，當他們真正需要協助的時候，你會在那並守護你關心的朋友，但除此之外， 他們也將必須為自己負責，這是種嚴厲的愛。 ---- 渣翻求指點。 --

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